Our Version Gave Us You

Leo turns 4 soon. A look back at the scars of his arrival, the lessons of fatherhood, and the gratitude I carry for the version of the story that gave us him.

Dear Leo,

In 77 days you turn 4 years old and here’s how I feel about that…

I sat with your godfather Scott just the other morning. It was early and you were off nursery that day due to your second round of an ear infection. So we spent the day together, but first we got coffee. You somehow twisted his arm into buying you a cinnamon swirl and a matcha cookie - neither of which you had tried before, but you seemed convincing in your argument, so he got you both. 

You’ve always had this way of getting what you want. Me and your mum always used to say to each other, that if you weren’t so cute and loveable, it would be easier to say no to you in those situations. You’ve certainly been blessed with some genetic advantages, and as your dad I couldn't be happier about it. Let’s keep that between us…